Over the years, I have received the same question from many people: why I am so lonely and friendless? It is sad to hear and hard to answer.
Loneliness is an emotional state, it can be replaced by a different emotional state. In modern society, people have a lot of stress with work and life, leaving no time for friends, hence becoming friendless. This can be changed through time management, joining social activities, and making time for friends.
From Chinese Astrology, there are some built in qualities which can make people to have a lonely, isolated or friendless character.
There are stars called 孤辰寡宿(Gu Chen, Gua Su) — The loneliness Star. The loneliness star is a negative star. It is no good for the family of the person. If the loneliness star happens to be a travel horse, then the person may live from place to place; if the loneliness star is void, then the person may have no support from a young age. If the loneliness star is in the earthly branch of the day pillar, it will affect the marriage. For a man, it will be hard to find a wife; for a woman, it will be short marriages, or becoming widowed.
Here are the methods to find out if you have these stars. Check the earthly branch of the year pillar.
If you were born in the year of pig, rat, or ox, from other pillars, see tiger or dog symbol, then it is the loneliness star.
If you were born in the year of tiger, rabbit, or dragon, from other pillars, see snake or ox symbol, then it is the loneliness star.
If you were born in the year of snake, horse, sheep, see monkey or dragon symbol, then it is the loneliness star.
If you were born in the year of monkey, rooster, dog, see the symbol of pig, or sheep from other pillars, then it is the loneliness star.
If the loneliness star appears to be a nobleman, or the person’s BaZi have power and academic star, the person can become a charismatic leader.
If you find this lonely star in your chart, don’t lose hope, we can accept it and manage it to improve the quality and success of life.